3 months since my last post and not much has changed. I am the worst possible role model for anyone (if anyone is actually reading this).
Are you someone who needs to get their shit together? Are you trying to lose weight? Are you trying to get healthy? Are you trying to be a better mom, a better wife, a better you? Are you trying to find the key to your happiness? Well, you are NOT in the right place. You’ve taken a wrong turn. You shouldn’t be here. Turn around. Go back where you came from. This is not the place for you.
Are you looking for an excuse as to why none of that is getting done? Maybe work is stressful, maybe one of your kids has a health-related issue that is causing you a lifetime of anxiety and stress. Maybe you are just addicted to chips and coke. Maybe you’re lazy. Maybe you make weekly promises to yourself that THIS will be the week. THIS will be the new beginning. The NEW you. The better YOU. That everything will be better. Starting today (or tomorrow).
If you continue to tell yourself those lies, then you are most definitely in the right place. Because I can tell you – that? The “new beginning, starting today” is pure bullshit. It’s not starting today. It never starts NOW, and it most definitely never starts tomorrow. So here I am, standing before the world of blogging (which is basically just myself and any random stranger that somehow ended up on here accidentally and got sucked in by my awesomness/fatness)….I want to start. Today. This moment. This is my defining moment.
Maybe, just maybe this time I’m telling myself the truth. Maybe, maybe I’ve had enough. Maybe I’m ready for change.
I remain hopeful. I remain hopeful that I am not a loss cause. That I can be that better wife, mother, sister, daughter, friend, heck, even employee.
So, let me look at this in terms of today, I won’t think about all the promises I might break tomorrow (or this weekend). I will think about today…..and make the choices I need to make to get me on step closer (one “today” closer to my best “today”).
I want to try and remind myself that this shouldn’t be hard. Losing a child is hard. Fighting cancer is hard. Trying to lose weight, get in shape and get out of my funk, shouldn’t be hard. I am not saying it’s easy – but I can’t keep failing with the excuse “well, it’s hard” as my fallback.
So, I’m picking up my socks (actually, I’m in barefeet today in my pumps, even at 13C,) and I’m making a choice. A choice to get back on this bandwagon. For many reasons. For me, for my kids, for my energy levels, for the cute clothes I want to fit back into, for not wanting to be the fattest one at the office….see, there are many reasons.
What’s next? Well, I’ve got to do it. Today. April 27th, here are my goals for this week:
- Track my food on MyFitnessPal
- Drink 64oz of water a day
- Jog (or attempt to – novice runner here) 4x this week.
Three goals.
Good luck to me. I’ve got this…..(i hope).